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I shuddered through the entirety of the book. I’ve met these kinds of men before in academia - those soft, overly-analytical men who hide their blatant disregard for female intellect through over-romanticisation of them and unspoken digs about how she doesn’t rise to his standards, intellectually and aesthetically. Yet, he holds onto her and doesn’t know why. She’s clearly inferior to him in every sense of the word. Perhaps it’s their “endearing” teasing of one another that keeps them together (albeit the digs are somewhat on the nose and are clearly rooted in unspoken distastes they have about one another, but the health of this dialogue isn’t brought into question). Louie, Elaine (17 November 2010). "Alain de Botton's First Effort to Bring Modern Architecture to the British". The New York Times . Retrieved 16 August 2022. Alain de Botton, the Swiss-born essayist who lives in London, founded a nonprofit group called Living Architecture in 2009 At times, the discussion goes beyond the context of a romance. “ False Notes” and “ Love or Liberalism” for instance, symbolises a choice also in the political arena. We easily equate intimacy with a license — we care out of good intentions, we become judgmental of the false notes the other party shows, and ultimately, rosy beginnings end bloody. You like hearing his take on things. Since AB is introspective and curious, he is able to describe his experiences to you in fascinating detail. Since he studied philosophy, he can relate his insights to you in a wider frame of thought.

Naomi Wolf (March 2009). "The Pleasures and Sorrows of Work by Alain de Botton". The Times. London . Retrieved 11 July 2009. ...this book examining "work" sounds often as if it has been written by someone who never had a job that was not voluntary, or at least pleasant. Hird, Alison (17 June 2014). "Parisians learn at the School of Life". RFI . Retrieved 16 August 2022. Founded in London in 2008 by Swiss-born philosopher Alain de Botton After all, Botton tells you that your heart is uneasy and blind enough to take it all the way out, with the same awareness of loss of lucidity, and so, from a point onwards , - of authenticity.

Alain de Botton: Philosopher". TED: Ideas Worth Spreading. New York, NY: TED Conferences, LLC. 2011 . Retrieved 26 February 2018. Through his witty and literate books, and his new School of Life, Alain de Botton helps others find fulfillment in the everyday Philosopher king: Alain de Botton finds glamour and drama in the world". The Independent. 27 March 2009 . Retrieved 18 February 2023. Jim Holt (10 December 2006). "Dream Houses". The New York Times . Retrieved 6 April 2008. Like de Botton's previous books, this one contains its quota of piffle dressed up in pompous language.

But the plot is not the whole story by any means. The chapters have headings like ‘Romantic Fatalism’, ‘Romantic Terrorism’, ‘Intermittences of the Heart’. The book is a psycho-philosophical treatise on love, the paragraphs numbered and ironically illustrated with diagrams; the first one is a mathematical calculation of the chances of Chloe and the narrator being seated side by side on the plane, the last a graph of her orgasmic contractions. There are quotations from and references to Plato, Kant, John Stuart Mill, Groucho Marx, Nietzsche, Wittgenstein, Pascal, La Rochefoucauld, Stendhal, Goethe, Freud, Barthes, and finally Dr Peggy Nearly, a Californian psychoanalyst whose do-it-yourself manual, The Bleeding Heart, was published in 1987. Botton invents a consultation between Dr Nearly and Madame Bovary in which the good doctor urges Flaubert’s heroine to choose more suitable lovers and to make an effort to look after yourself, to go over your childhood, then perhaps you’ll learn that you don’t deserve all this pain. It’s only because you grew up in a dysfunctional family. Searle, Adrian (25 April 2014). "Art Is Therapy review – de Botton as doorstepping self-help evangelist". The Guardian . Retrieved 30 May 2014. Imagine one of your close friends - let's call him AB - has recently embarked on an intense and tumultuous relationship. Alain de Botton's Swiss-born mother was Ashkenazi, and his father was from a Sephardic Jewish family from the town of Boton [4] in Castile and León. De Botton's ancestors include Abraham de Boton. [5] De Botton's paternal grandmother was Yolande Harmer, a Jewish-Egyptian journalist who spied for Israel and died in Jerusalem. [6] De Botton's narrator describes falling in love with Chloe, being in love with her, and then getting over her.

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In the Essays in Love, the narrator is smitten by Chloe Birnbaum, Robert (1 September 2002). "Alain de Botton Interview (The Art of Travel)". Identity Theory . Retrieved 18 February 2023. With my little knowledge on philosophy (from my reading of my Sophie’s World mainly), De Botton impressed me with what the modern and ancient philosophers, psychoanalysts and anthropologists (Plato, Freud, Kant, L. K. Hsu, Fisino, etc) and even Jesus say about love. His love story (he used first person narration) with a girl called Chloe is rather typical but he interspersed the plot with those long-held theories about love or rather what happens to us when we fall in and out of love. de Botton, Alain (24 December 2011). "An atheist at Christmas: Oh come all ye faithless". The Guardian. London. The book maybe a difficult read for many but hopefully it can help people to better understand the complex forces at work in relationships. If two people in love, who both desperately want a relationship to work, but can't and, in fact, end up hurting each other and destroying the relationship; what hope is there for international diplomacy?

The book often references philosophers and analogies from philosophy which may be slightly confusing if you don’t have prior philosophical knowledge; however this does not affect the book as a whole. It can, at times, be quite challenging to grasp due to the scope of language used, but this generally makes the book so much more sophisticated.Boy meets girl, they fall in love, they fall out of love. Between these major beats, Alain de Botton traverses enough philosophical ground to make that old story entirely his own. It's a love story, of course, but it's intellectual more than it is romantic. It's not about some guy's fortunate/unfortunate heart, it's about a brain (with an impressive classical education) trying to come to terms with said heart. His father, having spent his childhood in Egypt when it was a British protectorate, also had an exaggerated respect for English education and sent Alain to board at the Dragon School in Oxford when he was only eight. He spoke no English, having grown up in Switzerland: "It was miserable. I was foreign and Jewish, with a funny name, and was very small and hated sport, a real problem at an English prep school. So the way to get round it was to become the school joker, which I did quite effectively - I was always fooling around to make the people who would otherwise dump me in the loo laugh." Who am I ? At this question, Botton just lays a new layer of fog, beyond all your certaintes, until now. He met his wife Charlotte in 2001 in a typically quirky de Bottonian way. He was talking with friends late at night and someone asked him to describe his ideal girlfriend, so he did, in great detail, and "miraculously one person in the room took note of this and introduced me to Charlotte the very next weekend." It was miraculous, given the specificity of his demands. He said his ideal girlfriend had to be a doctor's daughter who grew up outside London and worked in business or science, all of which Charlotte was. "She was a businesswoman, she'd started her own company, she knew how to create an Excel spreadsheet or run a payroll - she can do all these things that I can't do." He gleefully imagines Chloe’s distraught reaction to his death, and how she would blame herself for ‘not understanding’ him. But he survived (obviously), which is fortunate, as he realised much later that he would have been “too dead to derive any pleasure from the melodrama of my extinction”. What a lovely chap. How the women weren’t throwing themselves at him after this I have no idea.

In The Architecture of Happiness [14] (2006), he discusses the nature of beauty in architecture and how it is related to the well-being and general contentment of the individual and society. He describes how architecture affects people every day, though people rarely pay particular attention to it. A good portion of the book discusses how human personality traits are reflected in architecture. He defends Modernist architecture, and chastises the pseudo-vernacular architecture of housing, especially in the UK. "The best modern architecture," he argues, "doesn't hold a mirror up to nature, though it may borrow a pleasing shape or expressive line from nature's copybook. It gives voice to aspirations and suggests possibilities. The question isn't whether you'd actually like to live in a Le Corbusier home, but whether you'd like to be the kind of person who'd like to live in one." [ citation needed]

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Alain de Botton: I would advise a friend to travel alone (metkere.com/en)". metkere.com. 5 August 2008. Barber, Lynn (22 March 2009). "Office affairs". The Observer. ISSN 0029-7712 . Retrieved 18 February 2023.



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